best3444 Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 2 minutes ago, Rachel said: @best3444 Definitely interesting that he said that. I guess it's possible to be with a mother and not involve myself with the children. It just seems like an asshole move though. IDK. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted January 27, 2022 Author Share Posted January 27, 2022 5 minutes ago, best3444 said: Definitely interesting that he said that. I guess it's possible to be with a mother and not involve myself with the children. It just seems like an asshole move though. IDK. Dynamics with the kids are different for everyone. One of my exes' baby daddy literally forbade my ex from bringing me around while the kid was around. Not for any reason on my end, he was just insecure about me becoming new daddy. The other one kind of got dangerously close to like "you'll babysit my kid on your days off, right?" kind of territory. Homie don't play that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jason Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 28 minutes ago, Bacon said: How can you stand running D1P?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 1 hour ago, Rachel said: No wonder you like being a parent lol edit: wait… is Juanita your wife’s name? I have been under the impression that your wife and Juanita are two different people. Am I incorrect? Juanita is indeed my wife 😊 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kamusha Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 I would love to be a mother one day. I just love kids so much and my friends with kids say that watching me interact with their children make it very obvious to them that I want to be a parent someday. But currently I'm very, very single and not in a good financial situation to be taking care of anyone other than myself. My goal is to turn it around by age 40 and hopefully by then I'm not too old to have children. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 53 minutes ago, Rachel said: wooooow I thought Juanita was your live in nanny... Racist 2 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacon Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 4 minutes ago, Commissar SFLUFAN said: Racist Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jason Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 1 hour ago, Rachel said: wooooow I thought Juanita was your live in nanny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ominous Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 Here we see a brief moment where nobody is yelling, crying, or "dying". 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyser_Soze Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 39 minutes ago, Commissar SFLUFAN said: Racist You should permaban her instead of harboring her here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted January 27, 2022 Author Share Posted January 27, 2022 14 minutes ago, Ominous said: Here we see a brief moment where nobody is yelling, crying, or "dying". Doesn't help that you have a clenched fist in that photo. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ominous Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 1 minute ago, Fizzzzle said: Doesn't help that you have a clenched fist in that photo. Sometimes you manifest your hope they'll keep it together via a physical response. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoberChef Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 When it comes to kids, I am on team "Abso-fucking-lutely NOPE!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperSpreader Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 10 hours ago, Rachel said: Also he’s always humble bragging about his riches so I figured when he mentions Juanita all the time it was just his usual regular reminders that he is rich af. Does one Ferrari look poor or should I take a deal on 3? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodporne Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 I want kids but it hasn't worked out so far and I'm not happy about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnny Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 15 hours ago, best3444 said: Definitely interesting that he said that. I guess it's possible to be with a mother and not involve myself with the children. It just seems like an asshole move though. IDK. my stepdad was never really a "parent" to me. He would drive me places when I needed to go somewhere and cook food for everybody, but he never disciplined me or took on the role of a father. He was more like a friend I could hang out with at home and would tell me not to do stupid shit lol. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 1 hour ago, johnny said: my stepdad was never really a "parent" to me. He would drive me places when I needed to go somewhere and cook food for everybody, but he never disciplined me or took on the role of a father. He was more like a friend I could hang out with at home and would tell me not to do stupid shit lol. That's still too much for me to handle. I don't want anything to do with the children and to find a woman that is ok with that is a one and a million shot imo. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnny Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 2 minutes ago, best3444 said: That's still too much for me to handle. I don't want anything to do with the children and to find a woman that is ok with that is a one and a million shot imo. Understandable. Sounds like you need to find somebody that doesn't have kids or their kids are adults. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 9 minutes ago, johnny said: Understandable. Sounds like you need to find somebody that doesn't have kids or their kids are adults. It's been a bitch on the dating app I'm on which isn't the greatest (plenty o fish). All the women that send me messages and "like me" have kids (35 yrs+). Then if I look for 25yr olds I'm considered a pedophile by @Rachel 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 I don’t need to worry about kids because I’m an incel so no chance of me getting anyone pregnant. But with that said, if I were a normal guy no way would I want a kid/kids. I’m too selfish and love to buy myself stuff. I would resent a kid taking not only my money but my free time as well. Wow when I write it into words I’m really a horrible piece of shit lol. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamer.tv Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 One child at the moment. 16 month old girl and she’s the best - though with parenting and working, life does get very tiring. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 6 minutes ago, gamer.tv said: One child at the moment. 16 month old girl and she’s the best - though with parenting and working, life does get very tiring. That age is tough. Feels like mostly just surviving. It definitely gets better! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperSpreader Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 29 minutes ago, best3444 said: if I look for 25yr olds I'm considered a pedophile by You do you (and them) (if they consent) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TwinIon Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 My wife and I have been together since we were pretty young and neither of us have ever really wanted to have kids. Both of our families would be very happy if we were to have kids, I think we'd make pretty good parents, and we make enough money that it wouldn't be an undue financial burden, but as long as our desire isn't there, none of that really matters. We're now up to six nieces, and that is more than enough interaction with children for me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 I wish I had a niece or nephew to borrow from time to time. But as it stands, the only sibling who reproduced is my husband's half-sister and she's an absolute toxic piece of shit who we have nothing to do with. I feel bad for her kids. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Posted January 27, 2022 Share Posted January 27, 2022 2 hours ago, Rachel said: I don’t think that’s horrible at all. I feel the exact same way. What’s really horrible is feeling like that and reproducing anyway, and then being a shitty parent to someone who never even asked to be here. I literally almost posted this exactly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted January 27, 2022 Author Share Posted January 27, 2022 Ha, I just remembered that my little brother is younger than 3 of his nieces/nephews Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted January 28, 2022 Share Posted January 28, 2022 48 minutes ago, Rachel said: I have a niece and nephew. And it’s nice. I get to watch some kids I’m genetically close to grow and have a relationship with them, without being a parent. I love being an aunt but I don’t want to be a parent. Same. I've been an uncle since the age of 9 and I have 12 nephews and nieces and that has been plenty of children in my life. A majority of them are adults now anyway. I was like a father figure to my one nephew groing up. That's absolutely the closest I'll ever get in being a parent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ominous Posted January 28, 2022 Share Posted January 28, 2022 https://photos.app.goo.gl/AyPkBK6RodkDBCm26 I mean how can you not want kids? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pikachu Posted January 28, 2022 Share Posted January 28, 2022 My wife and I have an 8 month old girl. We may go for one more in a year or two. 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DarkStar189 Posted January 28, 2022 Share Posted January 28, 2022 My son is 9 and daughter is 7. We're definitely done. Once both kids were over like 6 years old I feel like I started getting some of my free time back. And by free time I mean more moments here and there where everybody is totally occupied and I'm not needed every 5 minutes. They sleep in till about 8-8:30am on weekends! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patatat Posted February 2, 2022 Share Posted February 2, 2022 Living the dink life and not gonna be convinced otherwise (unless it's tink life lmao 😉) Ayyyy https://www.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/i0xye3/goals_triple_income_no_kids/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyser_Soze Posted February 12, 2022 Share Posted February 12, 2022 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted February 12, 2022 Share Posted February 12, 2022 1 hour ago, Keyser_Soze said: Put a warning to turn your speakers down for that video. Jfc. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyser_Soze Posted February 12, 2022 Share Posted February 12, 2022 45 minutes ago, best3444 said: Put a warning to turn your speakers down for that video. Jfc. My speaker are always low, everything plays loud. 🤷♀️ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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