Kamusha Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 I am so upset and disappointed in this board, but particularly @sblfilms He knows I am autistic. He knows I am trans. I have heard him express anti trans positions: And he always talks to me like I’m an idiot. When I call him out on it he lashes back because he probably because he doesn’t like being when a trans woman speaks her mind. I am done with this board until I can be reassured that it will be less hostile towards me. This is my final word. Message me if you really care anymore. I get so much disrespect already as a trans comic in Florida so I’m not gonna deal with a on a message board to used to make me feel safe. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 So you are disappointed with the entire board because of an issue with one person? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 I hope things get better for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SoberChef Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 Can't one just block an individual on here? If not, maybe look into that being a feature per chance? Until then...just ignore an individual that uses mean words to hurt you just so badly on a fucking message board? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 I thought there’s always been an ignore feature. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 48 minutes ago, Kamusha said: I am so upset and disappointed in this board, but particularly @sblfilms He knows I am autistic. He knows I am trans. I have heard him express anti trans positions: And he always talks to me like I’m an idiot. When I call him out on it he lashes back because he probably because he doesn’t like being when a trans woman speaks her mind. I am done with this board until I can be reassured that it will be less hostile towards me. This is my final word. Message me if you really care anymore. I get so much disrespect already as a trans comic in Florida so I’m not gonna deal with a on a message board to used to make me feel safe. Ideally I hope you two can patch things up because I think you could get along, I hope he is open to being more sensitive knowing how much this has affected you. But otherwise, yes you can also block him if that helps, though again I hope you don’t feel you have to. I have nothing else to add but I personally value and respect you and am glad you are part of the community and hope that we can be one that feels safe for you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skillzdadirecta Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 56 minutes ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said: I thought there’s always been an ignore feature. I had SBL on ignore for awhile until recently Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 1 minute ago, skillzdadirecta said: I had SBL on ignore for awhile until recently I've never really thought to use it. The hate just fueled me. JK, I'm okay with him now. He definitely has some takes, but I'm not sure transphobia is one of them. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacon Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 If anyone needs a quick rundown: Spoiler 10 hours ago, Kal-El814 said: Right, exactly. Also this is what pisses me off about Chappelle's bit linked earlier. Yeah, maybe some of the women Louie harassed do have a "brittle ass spirit." But who fucking cares, what does that have to do with anything? You don't know how people are going to react to stuff. I know people who were harassed and it really changed them meaningfully and for a long time. I know someone who was raped and for all intents and purposes it just kinda rolled off her back. 10 hours ago, Kamusha said: Big yikes. Maybe we should be talking about victims in a more respectful manner here. Attitudes like this are why women are afraid to speak out. 10 hours ago, sblfilms said: That is quite clearly not Kal’s position 8 hours ago, Kamusha said: It was easy to interpret that he was conceding that maybe some women were like that. He shouldn't be doing that. Period. And please watch your tone. How is it "clearly" if I misunderstood? Unless you're implying that I must be stupid for not understanding something that is so "clear". 3 hours ago, sblfilms said: I am so completely over the way you act like you're being picked on when people don't go along with what you think about a topic. 1 hour ago, Kamusha said: I am so over being talked down by you. You have expressed transphobic ideals before in the past. Your mask is off because you are talking to me with such disrespect. The audacity of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skillzdadirecta Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 7 minutes ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said: I've never really thought to use it. The hate just fueled me. JK, I'm okay with him now. He definitely has some takes, but I'm not sure transphobia is one of them. Same here. He and I don't agree on much of anything besides our tastes in movies but I've never seen him be transphobic or LGBT intolerant. I'm also not an authourity on the subject so my opinion means less than nothing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 Just now, skillzdadirecta said: Same here. He and I don't agree on much of anything besides our tastes in movies but I've never seen him be transphobic or LGBT intolerant. I'm also not an authourity on the subject so my opinion means less than nothing. Fair. I try to be understanding and see how things could be perceived to other people, but with Bacon's rundown above, I just don't see it. But it's not the first time Kamusha has gotten extremely upset over something seemingly minor. I figure she'll be back. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skillzdadirecta Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 1 minute ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said: Fair. I try to be understanding and see how things could be perceived to other people, but with Bacon's rundown above, I just don't see it. But it's not the first time Kamusha has gotten extremely upset over something seemingly minor. I figure she'll be back. Oh trust me I know... I was in @sblfilmsshoes myself awhile back for something I said that was misinterpreted. Best case is to tread lightly especially when it comes to sensitive topics. That costs nothing. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 2 minutes ago, skillzdadirecta said: Oh trust me I know... I was in @sblfilmsshoes myself awhile back for something I said that was misinterpreted. Best case is to tread lightly especially when it comes to sensitive topics. That costs nothing. But I didn't think that particular part of the discussion was THAT sensitive! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 Alright.. time for a SCORCHING HOT TAKE! .. kidding, I don't have one. It's your world, I'm just living in it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacon Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 2 minutes ago, Fizzzzle said: Alright.. time for a SCORCHING HOT TAKE! DC comics and their properties suck balls 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyser_Soze Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 He's a troll but does so to disguise his trolling. Never give him what he wants. Keep posting @Kamusha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 I’m sorry I hurt your feelings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Captain Pickle Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 Yeah kamusha, sblfilms had upset me in the past but I’m a sensitive type so his devils advocate can get your blood boiling. But if you express that to him he does respond respectfully if you’re truly upset. Turns out he’s a pretty decent guy just a bit of an argumentative type. I wouldn’t leave because of that. He just apologized as well. I call him captain semantics! He’s our debating super villain. Realize this and you’ll see he’s not a bad dude. also, I’m sorry you were hurt here but please don’t leave. We need a good mix of people here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 A lot of grievances towards @sblfilms and here I thought @Biggie and@BlueAngel were the most hated. I truly hope you all can get along and be friendly towards each other. We need more love in this world. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnny Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 I know there’s a lot of hatred and discrimination towards trans people but somebody taking issue with something you are doing does not automatically mean they are being transphobic. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 4 minutes ago, johnny said: I know there’s a lot of hatred and discrimination towards trans people but somebody taking issue with something you are doing does not automatically mean they are being transphobic. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnny Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 1 minute ago, Biggie said: i don’t know if i can say the same for you bubba Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 42 minutes ago, johnny said: i don’t know if i can say the same for you bubba I’m heart broken Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe Posted April 9, 2022 Share Posted April 9, 2022 Sblfilms is a friend and I’ve never known him to be even slightly transphobic. He just loves to argue to a fault, which tbh I do too so I can’t judge haha. Youre a great poster kamusha and it would be a shame to see you leave. I think if his posts bother you so much you should just put him on ignore and carry on. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GeneticBlueprint Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 If you haven't had a pedantic argument with sbl you haven't lost your D1P virginity. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kal-El814 Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 13 minutes ago, GeneticBlueprint said: I'd you haven't had a pedantic argument with sbl you haven't lost your D1P virginity. If it's an anal or oral argument, does it count? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GeneticBlueprint Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 3 minutes ago, Kal-El814 said: If it's an anal or oral argument, does it count? I'll allow it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 21 minutes ago, GeneticBlueprint said: I'll allow it. I'll allow your allowing it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kamusha Posted April 10, 2022 Author Share Posted April 10, 2022 15 hours ago, Joe said: Sblfilms is a friend and I’ve never known him to be even slightly transphobic. He just loves to argue to a fault, which tbh I do too so I can’t judge haha. Youre a great poster kamusha and it would be a shame to see you leave. I think if his posts bother you so much you should just put him on ignore and carry on. He has said - Trans women shouldn’t be viewed as women - Has been critical of trans activists going after JK Rowling - That trans children are being pressured to take hormones I assure you I’m not making this up. As a trans person I’m seeing things that cis users here aren’t seeing, and I assure you he has bigoted views. It’s no surprise he has those beliefs while also talking to me like I’m an idiot. I’m just done with this. I experienced a very upsetting instance of transphobia in my personal life earlier this week and I just don’t have the patience to deal with it on here anymore. I’m not gonna read this thread because its too painful for me, but DMs will go to my email. But it is curious to reflexively defend a cis person rather than take a silenced minority (trans person) at their word. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 Bruh I think you are making this way more than it is or should be. It’s one dude on a random message board that you don’t know personally, who isn’t in your life, and doesn’t have any affect on your well being. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 @Kamusha Anybody that posts on d1p is strange and odd, believe me. Just ignore SBL and move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 8 minutes ago, best3444 said: @Kamusha Anybody that posts on d1p is strange and odd, believe me. Just ignore SBL and move on. Okay now you’re going to be accused of being transphobic 🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 7 minutes ago, Biggie said: Okay now you’re going to be accused of being transphobic 🤣 I'm accused of everything. I'm done caring. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted April 10, 2022 Share Posted April 10, 2022 13 minutes ago, best3444 said: I'm accused of everything. I'm done caring. Hey make your own thread! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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