Remarkableriots Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 Seems like a good list to me Quote Anybody else have some good dating rules/tips? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TUFKAK Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 This works for me. Plus only right swipe 7s and up, unless thick. Plus a size too small shirt. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 I haven't been on a date in 4 years. I was just myself and was confident and everything went completely fine. In a year or so I'll have to do it again and it absolutely sucks. I wish I were in India and my parents arranged my marriage st 15. I work with a guy in that very situation. He's still married with 3 kids. Arranged marriages should be the norm every where. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.Vic20 Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 Balance your behavior between not trying too hard and not being selfish or deceptive. Though said a million times befoe, be yourself, for better or for worse. The person you are on a date with will see what they see in you, and its likely not what you think will make them like you or be turned off by you, so just relax and be comfortable in yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 1 hour ago, Mr.Vic20 said: Balance your behavior between not trying too hard and not being selfish or deceptive. Though said a million times befoe, be yourself, for better or for worse. The person you are on a date with will see what they see in you, and its likely not what you think will make them like you or be turned off by you, so just relax and be comfortable in yourself. Yea I did this AND I also paid for everything on that first date night. It's the old school thinking that the man should pay but it's a big plus initially. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 I find a good non violent way to establish dominance early on is to challenge them to an arm wrestling contest. 1 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 Just now, stepee said: I find a good non violent way to establish dominance early on is to challenge them to an arm wrestling contest. Or you could just pull down your pants and establish dominance by showing her your gigantic penis... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 3 minutes ago, best3444 said: Or you could just pull down your pants and establish dominance by showing her your gigantic penis... Even if you are a walking national wonder you still have to make sure they want to visit first 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 I am so glad I am done dating 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 9 minutes ago, Brian said: I am so glad I am done dating From what your wife has been telling me, you might be back in the dating scene soon. We talk daily. 2 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remarkableriots Posted January 12, 2023 Author Share Posted January 12, 2023 6 hours ago, TUFKAK said: This works for me. Plus only right swipe 7s and up, unless thick. Plus a size too small shirt. I need a dating site for 4s and down to swipe right on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlwaysDyingX Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 Tip: the fat ones need loving too Rules: must be ok with me being married. But seriously, fuck dating. I don't miss the rat race. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 22 minutes ago, best3444 said: From what your wife has been telling me, you might be back in the dating scene soon. We talk daily. She loves to talk. I was wondering why I had more time lately to play games. Thanks bud. 1 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodporne Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 If she doesn't like Seinfeld, I'm fucking OUT. 2 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheLeon Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 Just keep in mind that as a man, you deserve sex, and any woman who doesn’t instantly give it to you is a bitch. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodporne Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 1 minute ago, TheLeon said: Just keep in mind that as a man, you deserve sex, and any woman who doesn’t instantly give it to you is a bitch. HUMP EM AND DUMP EM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TUFKAK Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 40 minutes ago, Remarkableriots said: I need a dating site for 4s and down to swipe right on. Lol but seriously the biggest thing that helped for me was knowing there will always be another girl. That realization put all the power into my hands. Dating is supposed to be fun. But I do legit like being closed now more than the randoms. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamer.tv Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 For better and for worse, I’ve always gone in as ‘authentic’ as possible then if that works, get drunk. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 I only ever dated my wife, so, sorry but I won’t give you tips on dating her Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b_m_b_m_b_m Posted January 12, 2023 Share Posted January 12, 2023 6 minutes ago, sblfilms said: I only ever dated my wife, so, sorry but I won’t give you tips on dating her Same 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nokra Posted January 13, 2023 Share Posted January 13, 2023 NSFW But seriously, just relax, be yourself, and have fun with it. I think we put too much pressure on dating to find "the one" (which is BS anyway), so just have fun with it. Try setting up dates to do things you genuinely want to do, whether that's trying out a new bar or restaurant, visiting a new bookshop, going for a walk in a new neighborhood, checking out a new band, whatever. That way, you're going to get an interesting experience out of it anyway, even if you find that the person you're out with isn't a great fit for you, and you also might just discover something new you like. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted January 13, 2023 Share Posted January 13, 2023 I’m just really glad I don’t have to worry about this anymore. Not that I really did. Dated one guy in high school, went badly, met my husband at 17 and the rest is history. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remarkableriots Posted January 15, 2023 Author Share Posted January 15, 2023 I use alternate text numbers to give out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Commissar SFLUFAN Posted January 15, 2023 Share Posted January 15, 2023 Decent background check services are relatively inexpensive. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anathema- Posted January 16, 2023 Share Posted January 16, 2023 Sorry I have no advice; nothing worked for me until it did. Maybe that's the only advice anyone can give. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamer.tv Posted January 16, 2023 Share Posted January 16, 2023 1 hour ago, Anathema- said: Sorry I have no advice; nothing worked for me until it did. Maybe that's the only advice anyone can give. Would ‘put it in the butt, exclusively’ count? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anathema- Posted January 16, 2023 Share Posted January 16, 2023 23 minutes ago, gamer.tv said: Would ‘put it in the butt, exclusively’ count? you gotta know what you like but that's not just a dating thing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacon Posted January 16, 2023 Share Posted January 16, 2023 If I ever decide to date via a dating service my pfp will be of my gut and the bio will read "if this won't turn you away, my face won't either" and hope for the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jason Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 no antivaxxers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TUFKAK Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 1 hour ago, Jason said: no antivaxxers for me the the three Cs. No conservatives no Christian’s no cross fitters 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remarkableriots Posted January 17, 2023 Author Share Posted January 17, 2023 On 1/12/2023 at 11:15 AM, TUFKAK said: Lol but seriously the biggest thing that helped for me was knowing there will always be another girl. That realization put all the power into my hands. Dating is supposed to be fun. But I do legit like being closed now more than the randoms. That works if you're good-looking, but I'm definitely not, and even if I get in better shape, that isn't going to help with that. I'll still work on getting in better shape because I feel better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TUFKAK Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 24 minutes ago, Remarkableriots said: That works if you're good-looking, but I'm definitely not, and even if I get in better shape, that isn't going to help with that. I'll still work on getting in better shape because I feel better. That’s a common rebuttal I hear. You don’t have to be Tom Brady to engender attraction, obviously it helps, but I’ve seen a lot of unattractive guys with women more attractive than them. I’m living proof of this. The mindset of “I’ll find another” helps you just be yourself and place what you want first. When you’re more aloof you’re not a try-hard which everyone can pick up on. Also, as a bodybuilder, absolutely do it for yourself. I wanted a body very few find desirable and I’d have been satisfied if I had actually achieved it despite what others think. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remarkableriots Posted January 17, 2023 Author Share Posted January 17, 2023 I mainly want to get in better shape and trying to eat better because I don't want to lose my foot or leg next. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TUFKAK Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 2 minutes ago, Remarkableriots said: I mainly want to get in better shape and trying to eat better because I don't want to lose my foot or leg next. Which is far more important for sure. At your current stats a metabolism booster may even be something to consider as well 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnny Posted January 17, 2023 Share Posted January 17, 2023 2 hours ago, TUFKAK said: for me the the three Cs. No conservatives no Christian’s no cross fitters cross fitters might actually be the worst out of these 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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