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How many people have you bumped uglies with?


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How many people have you bumped uglies with?  

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  1. 1. How many?

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    • 1
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    • 2-10
      7
    • 10-25
      5
    • 25-50
      2
    • I don't even remember some of their names
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4 hours ago, DarkStar189 said:

Just one. Met her when I was 17 and eventually got married. I freaked her out the other day when I said something like "our relationship is older than me when we first met." 18 years and only been with one person. What was I thinking... 

That’s me, lol. Well, I had one relationship before we met, but 17 years together. I was 17 when we met. 

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48 minutes ago, Rachel said:

I can not imagine only being with one person I intimately omg. Doesn’t the curiosity drive you wild?

If I met the love of my life at 15, I assume my attitude towards having sex with others would be like "if it ain't broke, don't fix it."

 

Then again I don't even remember who I lost my virginity to, so what do I know

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10 minutes ago, best3444 said:

I'd like to add that sex is extremely overrated and a lot of work to obtain. If I don't have sex for the rest of my life I wouldn't give two shits. 

 

So for guys like leon and bacon who are virgins....don't sweat it at all. 

 

You clearly didn't get the right escorts :notsure:

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Just now, DPCyric said:

 

You clearly didn't get the right escorts :notsure:

 

Escorts are a very small percentage of the women I have had sex with. I've slept with very good looking women and have had great sex. It's still not that big of a deal to me. Maybe it's my medications talking lol.

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1 minute ago, best3444 said:

 

Escorts are a very small percentage of the women I have had sex with. I've slept with very good looking women and have had great sex. It's still not that big of a deal to me. Maybe it's my medications talking lol.

 

Small percentage of mine as well but one good grief if it wasn't shortly after my divorce and I wasn't just feeling weird about life I would have checked that out some more. Maybe it is the medication but maybe it's just not so much your thing :thinking:

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9 hours ago, Rachel said:

I can not imagine only being with one person I intimately omg. Doesn’t the curiosity drive you wild?

I used to randomly wonder about it years ago.  But now the stuff I hear from single friends about dating and hooking up sounds way too stressful and online dating sounds like it could be a nightmare. 

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10 hours ago, Rachel said:

I can not imagine only being with one person I intimately omg. Doesn’t the curiosity drive you wild?

I wish I had been comfortable enough with my sexuality to experiment with women when I was younger, but I have no regrets about being with my husband all this time. 
 

We've discussed me getting with a woman before and he doesn’t really have a problem with it, but I’m lazy and don’t want to put the effort into it most of the time. 

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I only find sex interesting and enjoyable *because* of who it is with. I would honestly be fine not interacting with anybody but my wife once my kids are grown 😂

 

Like @DarkStar189mentioned, when I hear about dating in these modern times it becomes very clear that were it not for being married already, I would not be in any romantic relationship because the entire process seems dreadful.

 

So nah, curiosity doesn’t factor in for me and I’m sure the probability of feeling that way will actually decrease with time.

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8 hours ago, DarkStar189 said:

the stuff I hear from single friends about dating and hooking up sounds way too stressful and online dating sounds like it could be a nightmare. 

 

It is a complete nightmare and I've fully given up in trying to find a woman. I'm pretty sure I'm destined to be single until I pass away. Being an identical twin damaged me in all aspects in my life.

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Just counted in my head and I remembered 7. Might be 8 or 9 but 🤷🏻‍♂️

 

I understand the impulse to say sex isn't that important, but I would guess that it's one of those things that's easy enough to say when you've had it and know that first-hand, but wanting something desperately and not getting it can be maddening. Whether that's sex, a new job, a particular relationship, etc. 

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11 hours ago, CastlevaniaNut18 said:

I wish I had been comfortable enough with my sexuality to experiment with women when I was younger, but I have no regrets about being with my husband all this time. 
 

We've discussed me getting with a woman before and he doesn’t really have a problem with it, but I’m lazy and don’t want to put the effort into it most of the time. 

I understand your situation is unique, but I would advise against stuff like that as a general rule.

 

There is no such thing as unemotional sex. Sex is emotional by default. You can have sex with someone once, two times, maybe even a handful of times without feeling the effects of that emotion, but you will eventually get emotionally attached. Our brains are just wired that way.

 

Believe me, I've tried.

 

Not saying you shouldn't do it, as I don't believe in telling anyone what they should or shouldn't do because I'm an idiot, I'm just saying introducing a third party in any committed relationship is a slippery slope. He's okay with it because he's not threatened, you realise the other person is giving you something he can't give you, so you become attached, now he IS threatened and insecure, etc etc. I've seen it happen. Hell, it's happened to me.

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On 5/21/2022 at 5:47 AM, best3444 said:

So for guys like leon and bacon who are virgins....don't sweat it at all. 

"Oh that thing you want to have that nearly everyone else has? Yeah, it isn't that great :)." 

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