SaysWho? Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 A former Boston College student who police say sent her boyfriend more than 780 text messages a day — many telling him to “go die” and “go kill” himself — has been charged with manslaughter after 22-year-old Alexander Urtula committed suicide just two hours before he was set to graduate from BC. Quote Police determined You was “physically, verbally and psychologically abusive” toward Urtula after an investigation of his phone following his death, Rollins said. The couple exchanged more than 75,000 text messages — 47,000 from You — in the two months leading up to the suicide where You allegedly told her boyfriend to “go die” and to “kill himself” thousands of times, Rollins said. GOOD LORD. Quote “Many of the messages clearly display the power dynamic in the relationship wherein Ms. You made demands and threatens with the understanding that she had complete and total control over Mr. Urtula both mentally and emotionally,” Rollins said. You used threats of self-harm to control Urtula and the investigation revealed her manipulation escalated prior to Urtula’s suicide, Rollins said. “It also found that she was aware of his spiraling depression and suicidal thoughts brought on by her abuse yet she persisted, continuing to encourage him to take his own life,” Rollins said. https://www.nbcboston.com/news/local/What-to-Know-Former-Boston-College-Student-Indicted-in-Boyfriends-Suicide-564028531.html Quote You is currently in Korea, but officials said they are “cautiously optimistic” that she will voluntarily return to Boston to face the involuntary manslaughter charge. If she does not, authorities will pursue other avenues to have her extradited back. Quote If you are in crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 800-273-8255 or reach out to the Crisis Text Line by texting 'Home' to 741741. If you or someone you know has been affected by domestic violence, call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reputator Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 Am I allowed to make fun of her name? Or is that culturally insensitive? I feel like it might be OK on account of her being a bitch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedSoxFan9 Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 tiger girlfriend 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodporne Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 The more I kept reading, the more I thought "Man, I didn't do shit!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GeneticBlueprint Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 It's that teenager and his girlfriend suicide thing all over again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skillzdadirecta Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 9 hours ago, Reputator said: Am I allowed to make fun of her name? Or is that culturally insensitive? I feel like it might be OK on account of her being a bitch. I will admit, I was confused for a second reading the story... I was like " why are you accusing ME? I didn't do shit!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spork3245 Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 5 minutes ago, skillzdadirecta said: I will admit, I was confused for a second reading the story... I was like " why are you accusing ME? I didn't do shit!" You know what You did 1 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amazatron Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 This would make a great Abbott & Costello act. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skillzdadirecta Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 1 hour ago, Spork3245 said: You know what You did 42 minutes ago, Amazatron said: This would make a great Abbott & Costello act. Third base! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anathema- Posted October 29, 2019 Share Posted October 29, 2019 Nice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted October 30, 2019 Share Posted October 30, 2019 would Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nokt Posted October 30, 2019 Share Posted October 30, 2019 12 hours ago, Reputator said: Am I allowed to make fun of her name? Or is that culturally insensitive? I feel like it might be OK on account of her being a bitch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dodger Posted October 30, 2019 Share Posted October 30, 2019 15 hours ago, Reputator said: Am I allowed to make fun of her name? Or is that culturally insensitive? I feel like it might be OK on account of her being a bitch. Drop the young and I’d love to be In You. Maybe that came out wrong. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodporne Posted October 30, 2019 Share Posted October 30, 2019 I hope one day when I reach the pearly gates I can spin all my responses to horrific topics on this board as simply "making lemonade from lemons ". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jason Posted October 30, 2019 Share Posted October 30, 2019 8 hours ago, Dodger said: Drop the young and I’d love to be In You. Maybe that came out Wong. ftfy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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