Fizzzzle Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 It's so nice when that happens. I met up with a friend of mine that I've known for a long time but I haven't seen in a few years. Not gonna lie, I had ulterior motives but I didn't want to make that obvious. We hung out for a couple hours, then she left, then she texted me "so do you want to date or what?" I was like "well I thought I would have to be more creative in how I got to this point..." She was like "I've always been interested, we should make plans soon." Sometimes it's nice when you can cut through the bullshit. This person was a friend of my ex before they had a falling out while we were still together, so we haven't seen each other in a few years. She was pretty much like "so are you trying to fuck or what? Because I'm down if you are." Gotta love it. She's also into lots of weird shit that I've always kind of wanted to try but I haven't been able to do in my relationships. 1 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 Y’all can get your nails done at the same place 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted August 16, 2023 Author Share Posted August 16, 2023 10 minutes ago, Biggie said: Y’all can get your nails done at the same place Hell yeah we can. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyser_Soze Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 Well as long as she's not your friend's ex! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted August 16, 2023 Author Share Posted August 16, 2023 37 minutes ago, Keyser_Soze said: Well as long as she's not your friend's ex! She's my ex's ex-friend Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gamer.tv Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 We need more information about the ‘weird shot’ she is into. I’m not asking for myself, just for the wider board curiosity… Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 Fuck yes. It's amazing when the woman makes the first move and is aggressive. Saves a lot of work and headaches. Nice bro and keep us updated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 This post is a perfect example of burying the lede 😑 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kamusha Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 That’s why I’m bi and love talking to lesbians. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 11 hours ago, Keyser_Soze said: Well as long as she's not your friend's ex! At long as his feelings aren’t getting hurt, it’s Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted August 16, 2023 Share Posted August 16, 2023 So have you already removed the “to” from “Just had a woman come onto ME” Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted August 17, 2023 Author Share Posted August 17, 2023 13 hours ago, sblfilms said: This post is a perfect example of burying the lede 😑 What did I bury? The kinky shit? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted August 17, 2023 Author Share Posted August 17, 2023 22 hours ago, Keyser_Soze said: Well as long as she's not your friend's ex! Actually now that I think about it I do have a friend that dated her. But they only dated for a couple months and this was like 6 years ago, so it's all good in the hood. His current girlfriend is one of my best friends. Gotta love how small a big town can feel sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyser_Soze Posted August 17, 2023 Share Posted August 17, 2023 1 hour ago, Fizzzzle said: Gotta love how small a big town can feel sometimes. Sounds like there is one girl in this town and you're all sad your friend are dating her after you break up with her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted August 17, 2023 Author Share Posted August 17, 2023 1 hour ago, Keyser_Soze said: Sounds like there is one girl in this town and you're all sad your friend are dating her after you break up with her. Don't make me make a flow chart of everyone I know from Portland who have fucked each other at some point or another. It's like 3 degrees of Kevin Bacon at most between any 2 people I know. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted August 17, 2023 Share Posted August 17, 2023 When is she actually going to cum on you, though? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris- Posted August 17, 2023 Share Posted August 17, 2023 9 hours ago, Fizzzzle said: What did I bury? The kinky shit? Yeah what’s up with that?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted August 19, 2023 Author Share Posted August 19, 2023 On 8/17/2023 at 4:14 AM, best3444 said: When is she actually going to cum on you, though? Already happened On 8/17/2023 at 6:31 AM, Chris- said: Yeah what’s up with that?? If you can think of a kink that doesn't involve abnormal bodily functions regarding sex (no piss, scat, blood, etc) she's probably into it. When we talked about our sexual preferences/limits it was pretty much anything. Which, by the way people, when you start dating someone, make the first time you have sex be spontaneous and whatnot, but after that, just talk about it matter of factly. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted September 1, 2023 Author Share Posted September 1, 2023 So like I said, this girl and my ex used to be really tight until they had a falling out over something I can't remember years ago. My ex got brought up the other night. I knew my ex cheated on my at the end of our relationship, but I never really cared, our relationship was pretty much over by that point anyway. But my new person spilled all the tea the other night. Apparently she cheated on my a LONG time before that. With more than one person, one of which was my friend at the time. I don't know how to feel about that. Like on the one hand I don't care because this is all stuff that happened years ago at this point, but on the other hand, there is a part of me that is retroactively hurt for my younger self. It's like 2018-fizzle is piping up from the back of the room going "... Ouch, not cool..." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacon Posted September 1, 2023 Share Posted September 1, 2023 I would have rather not known tbh. Tho I don't know if you were asking about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted September 1, 2023 Share Posted September 1, 2023 8 minutes ago, Fizzzzle said: So like I said, this girl and my ex used to be really tight until they had a falling out over something I can't remember years ago. My ex got brought up the other night. I knew my ex cheated on my at the end of our relationship, but I never really cared, our relationship was pretty much over by that point anyway. But my new person spilled all the tea the other night. Apparently she cheated on my a LONG time before that. With more than one person, one of which was my friend at the time. I don't know how to feel about that. Like on the one hand I don't care because this is all stuff that happened years ago at this point, but on the other hand, there is a part of me that is retroactively hurt for my younger self. It's like 2018-fizzle is piping up from the back of the room going "... Ouch, not cool..." I say block it out mentally and put it to her tonight like a savage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fizzzzle Posted September 1, 2023 Author Share Posted September 1, 2023 27 minutes ago, Bacon said: I would have rather not known tbh. Tho I don't know if you were asking about it. The subject of cheating in general came up and I said "I know my ex cheated at the end, but it was what it was, we are pretty much on the outs anyway" and she just spilled everything. I got the feeling she wanted to say something about it for a long time. But I agree, I was much happier not knowing about it and it doesn't change my life. I haven't spoken to my ex in almost 2 years, that information serves me no purpose. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacon Posted September 1, 2023 Share Posted September 1, 2023 Damn. I'd prolly be pretty upset with them in that case even if it really isn't something I shouldn't be mad at them for. But I'm an insecure baby so /shrug Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 oh I see just totally ignore my suggestion 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nokra Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 1 hour ago, Fizzzzle said: So like I said, this girl and my ex used to be really tight until they had a falling out over something I can't remember years ago. My ex got brought up the other night. I knew my ex cheated on my at the end of our relationship, but I never really cared, our relationship was pretty much over by that point anyway. But my new person spilled all the tea the other night. Apparently she cheated on my a LONG time before that. With more than one person, one of which was my friend at the time. I don't know how to feel about that. Like on the one hand I don't care because this is all stuff that happened years ago at this point, but on the other hand, there is a part of me that is retroactively hurt for my younger self. It's like 2018-fizzle is piping up from the back of the room going "... Ouch, not cool..." Ugh, that's rough, sorry man. I've been cheated on a couple times and it really blows. I don't blame you at all for being upset at it, even years later. Do you think though this will be one of those things that you'll be glad to know later down the road? Personally, I think I'd almost always rather know the truth than not, even if it's a painful truth and I suffer a while for knowing it, because knowing the truth allows me to have a more accurate picture of reality, make better decisions, identity my hurt and address it, etc. But boy can it suck in the moment. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 Sucks that your ex was a whore and did that to you. Like you said, it's a while ago now so just try and move on. I understand it still stings though. I hate relationships. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyser_Soze Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 Forever with cheaters. I'm not too surprised since these are all people in your social space. If you want to find a non cheater you're probably going to have to go back to New Orleans or something. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 4 hours ago, Fizzzzle said: The subject of cheating in general came up and I said "I know my ex cheated at the end, but it was what it was, we are pretty much on the outs anyway" and she just spilled everything. I got the feeling she wanted to say something about it for a long time. But I agree, I was much happier not knowing about it and it doesn't change my life. I haven't spoken to my ex in almost 2 years, that information serves me no purpose. Im sorry to hear @TUFKAK did this to ya man 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TUFKAK Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 Hey! I’m good now. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TUFKAK Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 But honestly, I’ve cheated and I’ll take it to my grave, them knowing doesn’t change anything and only needlessly hurts them. There’s no reason to divulge it. 1 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 5 minutes ago, TUFKAK said: But honestly, I’ve cheated and I’ll take it to my grave, them knowing doesn’t change anything and only needlessly hurts them. There’s no reason to divulge it. I think I agree with this though. In a situation where you are able to actually keep the secret, and it really never comes out, you are better not knowing. I’d prefer that myself, even if it’s way in the past. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TUFKAK Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 5 minutes ago, stepee said: I think I agree with this though. In a situation where you are able to actually keep the secret, and it really never comes out, you are better not knowing. I’d prefer that myself, even if it’s way in the past. Guys just run their mouths and get caught as a result. Women are much better at cheating tbh, they don’t even tell their best friends. Guys basically post that shit on IG. If you can keep your mouth shut you won’t get caught, it’s already a selfish act to do it, don’t double up by confessing to make yourself feel better. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 Just now, TUFKAK said: Guys just run their mouths and get caught as a result. Women are much better at cheating tbh, they don’t even tell their best friends. Guys basically post that shit on IG. If you can keep your mouth shut you won’t get caught, it’s already a selfish act to do it, don’t double up by confessing to make yourself feel better. I’m just glad you are a taken man now and that is one less possibility in the bay area Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TUFKAK Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 Just now, stepee said: I’m just glad you are a taken man now and that is one less possibility in the bay area My gf is from jersey, she’d cut me. But the bay is a great place to date if you’re a guy who likes women but looks like he should be a bottom. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stepee Posted September 2, 2023 Share Posted September 2, 2023 3 minutes ago, TUFKAK said: My gf is from jersey, she’d cut me. But the bay is a great place to date if you’re a guy who likes women but looks like he should be a bottom. I was just kidding, I definitely wouldn’t date an AMERICAN anyway when I can go anywhere and do anything Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.