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I suspended my LinkedIn a few weeks ago and it feels great. While I know I can't get rid of it cause who knows, I feel so at peace not seeing all the BS on there from ppl I despise but have to coexist with. No FB, no Twitter, TikTok, nextdoor, Reddit, or LinkedIn.

 

Just us together in this hellhole of a mind we have. If I could do it financially I'd just cut more and be free, lifting weights, making food, drinking a good whiskey. 

 

Perhaps I want a smaller, closet knit, circle of real friends with real experiences. 

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On 11/26/2022 at 11:04 PM, SuperSpreader said:

I suspended my LinkedIn a few weeks ago and it feels great. While I know I can't get rid of it cause who knows, I feel so at peace not seeing all the BS on there from ppl I despise but have to coexist with. No FB, no Twitter, TikTok, nextdoor, Reddit, or LinkedIn.

 

Just us together in this hellhole of a mind we have. If I could do it financially I'd just cut more and be free, lifting weights, making food, drinking a good whiskey. 

 

Perhaps I want a smaller, closet knit, circle of real friends with real experiences. 

I haven't had any social media at all unless you count posting on D1P and Discord for Hunt: Showdown for about four years now and the whole concept feels almost alien to me now when I see people so caught up in it. Like I mean in media etc., seeing people sit in bed scrolling listlessly and all that and I absolutely did that. Not to mention the insane levels of anxiety having to worry about/interact with/appease literally hundreds of people at once. One wrong word in any direction? You're an asshole now and so on. I already am an anxious doom-thinker, I can't have that shit on my shoulders on top of it. Same goes for a constant stream of doom news and political drama, I just am not built for the arguments etc., I don't get off on that like so many people I know seem to. 

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2 minutes ago, Bloodporne said:

Like I mean in media etc., seeing people sit in bed scrolling listlessly and all that and I absolutely did that. Not to mention the insane levels of anxiety having to worry about/interact with/appease literally hundreds of people at once.

 

Just follow pleasant things and things are a lot less stressful. :p

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31 minutes ago, Bloodporne said:

I haven't had any social media at all unless you count posting on D1P and Discord for Hunt: Showdown for about four years now and the whole concept feels almost alien to me now when I see people so caught up in it. Like I mean in media etc., seeing people sit in bed scrolling listlessly and all that and I absolutely did that. Not to mention the insane levels of anxiety having to worry about/interact with/appease literally hundreds of people at once. One wrong word in any direction? You're an asshole now and so on. I already am an anxious doom-thinker, I can't have that shit on my shoulders on top of it. Same goes for a constant stream of doom news and political drama, I just am not built for the arguments etc., I don't get off on that like so many people I know seem to. 

 

Totally. Even with issues I side with, I don't need to know every shitty instance of something happening every moment in every city. It's relentless.

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2 hours ago, Brian said:

I only use LinkedIn for job openings. I never post on it. I had a Twitter account to post pics on D1P but closed it after Elon bought it. Otherwise I never use social media. 

 

That is all I liked twitter for too :( I want something that is as easy to upload and share from that consoles link to.

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I unfortunately cannot nuke Facebook yet.  I have a group I coordinate events for and all the events/invites are handled through FB's event management bits.  There's no alternative that I could convince everyone in the group to adopt.  Plus the group needs findable for other people looking to join the group.  If it wasn't for the event/invites/RSVPs that FB makes easy, I'd have deleted my account years ago.  I rarely post outside of that one group.  Maybe a picture or something to keep my mom happy, every month or two generally.

 

All my other social media is, for the most part, following others.  I don't post.

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I've never really used any social media since MySpace. I've never used LinkedIn, Instagram, Twitter (at least I've never posted on it, but ever since they made it so you had to be logged in to even read things I haven't even read it), and I only used Facebook for about 6 months before I managed to destroy a couple relationships and decided it was a bad idea.

 

The only social media I use is this, Reddit, and YouTube. All of which are rather anonymous

 

Something about the whole idea of "sharing" your life has never sat well with me. I don't want to know everything about you and I don't want anyone to know everything about me. I also have no interest in portraying myself as a character.

 

The fact that people have an expectation that everyone needs to live their life entirely in the public eye is something that I'm not sure I'll ever square with. Probably to my own detriment. Unfortunately, We've reached a point where people are suspicious of you if you don't have publicly available social media of any kind.

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