best3444 Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 14 hours ago, skillzdadirecta said: To be clear, when I say keep your mouth shut I mean don't volunteer the information if they don't suspect or ask. If they ask and are already suspicious, that means they already know and you should probably come clean and face the music. Obviously. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 @best3444buy me Shin Megami Tensei V for Switch. Thanks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brian Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 29 minutes ago, best3444 said: He's right on this. Go cheat and report back. How about you have a normal relationship first and report back 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 9 minutes ago, ManUtdRedDevils said: How about you have a normal relationship first and report back 30 minutes ago, Biggie said: @best3444buy me Shin Megami Tensei V for Switch. Thanks. How about you buy me my game that you promised and we will call it even. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodporne Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 I've been cheated on a few times and cheated once myself. I felt absolutely nothing either way when I did it surprisingly enough and never felt the need to confess, really it just kind of happened and it was done and I never thought about it again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 11 minutes ago, Bloodporne said: I've been cheated on a few times and cheated once myself. I felt absolutely nothing either way when I did it surprisingly enough and never felt the need to confess, really it just kind of happened and it was done and I never thought about it again. What is like it not having a inner soul? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bloodporne Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 31 minutes ago, Biggie said: What is like it not having a inner soul? 23 minutes ago, Rachel said: gross wtf 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
best3444 Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 3 hours ago, ManUtdRedDevils said: How about you have a normal relationship first and report back I've had normal relationships. I just have experience in the cheating scenario and it's not as cut and dry as you think. You have a family to consider, too. I'm completely disgusted by cheating but in cases mentioned above sometimes the best thing to do is keep it to yourself and move on and learn from it if nothing comes from it. Build the relationship you have even stronger and never look back. Mainly for the children involved. You never cheated from what little that I know so you really can't have an accurate opinion on this. Unless you were involved in a scenario that I'm not aware of. Anyway, I wasn't being a dick with my comment if you took it that way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rev Posted November 11, 2021 Share Posted November 11, 2021 There are several factors but I would say it's better to tell them in almost all cases. A couple things to consider: Would they want you to tell them? A big part of relationships, imo, is helping to optimize each other's values or improving each other's lives. So if they would want you to tell them on balance, that's what you should do imo without question. Unless your goals in the relationship are selfish and immoral, in which case my advice isn't really meant for you and I honestly hope they leave you and find someone they can be happier with. How will it affect you to continue this lie for the rest of the relationship? I think that, for me, maintaining a lie like this or even knowing about it would cause a ton of stress and indirectly make me less committed to the relationship in the long run. I would also be constantly worried about her finding out about it and that seems like a miserable prospect to me. This also depends on you and how introspective you are and how much this kind of thing would make you worry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperSpreader Posted November 12, 2021 Share Posted November 12, 2021 7 hours ago, Rachel said: gross wtf He's Don Draper Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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