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Anybody here ever use dating sites before?

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12 minutes ago, Jason said:

 

Except that's not the only way to find people.

 

Not the only way, but the best way. :p

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7 minutes ago, Mercury33 said:

No never because meeting and talking to women isn’t hard. They’re literally everywhere you look. 

But none of them are good enough for me

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I've never used one as I prefer to meet people the old fashioned way... by talking to them. No knock against folks who DO use them though. One of my best friends met his wife on EHarmony I think... They've been married for six years and have two kids now.

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5 hours ago, skillzdadirecta said:

I've never used one as I prefer to meet people the old fashioned way... by talking to them. No knock against folks who DO use them though. One of my best friends met his wife on EHarmony I think... They've been married for six years and have two kids now.

 

tbh, it's the way I prefer as well, but sometimes work schedules make it so difficult. :p 

 

Like, my g/f and I would never have crossed paths otherwise.

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Maybe all you alphas who only talk to women in person could use a dating site to maybe expand your circle and meet even more women unless of course you're swimming in so much pussy you couldn't possibly handle any more!

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10 hours ago, Mercury33 said:

No never because meeting and talking to women isn’t hard. They’re literally everywhere you look. 

Huh. Never thought of it like that. 

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21 hours ago, p00ndawg said:

i got married via okcupid and have 2 kids now.  although this was 8 years ago and online dating was still new. idk how well it holds up today.

 

Congrats on the sex.

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9 hours ago, Keyser_Soze said:

Maybe all you alphas who only talk to women in person could use a dating site to maybe expand your circle and meet even more women unless of course you're swimming in so much pussy you couldn't possibly handle any more!

 

:mthinking:

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17 hours ago, skillzdadirecta said:

I've never used one as I prefer to meet people the old fashioned way... by talking to them. No knock against folks who DO use them though. One of my best friends met his wife on EHarmony I think... They've been married for six years and have two kids now.

ok boomer

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18 hours ago, Mercury33 said:

No never because meeting and talking to women isn’t hard. They’re literally everywhere you look. 

I haven't found one yet desperate enough to want to do that.

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22 hours ago, Mercury33 said:

No never because meeting and talking to women isn’t hard. They’re literally everywhere you look. 

 

What do you think you're doing on these sites before meeting up with them?

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36 minutes ago, Jason said:

 

What do you think you're doing on these sites before meeting up with them?

Communication is like 90% non-verbal so I personally don't equate texting and chatting through a screen with talking to someone in person. Again, no knock against folks for using dating sites but it's not the same thing.

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Just now, skillzdadirecta said:

Communication is like 90% non-verbal so I personally don't equate texting and chatting through a screen with talking to someone in person. Again, no knock against folks for using dating sites but it's not the same thing.

 

Of course it's not, but it lets you meet a lot of people you wouldn't have otherwise so I don't really see why you'd rule it out before even trying it.

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Just now, Jason said:

 

Of course it's not, but it lets you meet a lot of people you wouldn't have otherwise so I don't really see why you'd rule it out before even trying it.

Because it's not for ME maybe? I meet plenty of people all the time... met my last girlfriend at a bar. I saw her walk in, thought she was cute, struck up a conversation and we ended up dating for a couple of years. I've NEVER had a hard time meeting people and the whole online thing doesn't have a lot of appeal FOR ME.  I have another friend who is like the online dating expert. The guy goes out on maybe two or three dates a week and he honestly has it down to a science but it honestly seems like more work than just going out and meeting people. :shrug: Kudos for those that find success on it though. As I said, I know people who have gotten married off of online dating. Maybe my tune will change... I've been single again for a couple of months so who knows.

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1 minute ago, skillzdadirecta said:

Because it's not for ME maybe?

 

But you've never tried it so how do you know doe.

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6 minutes ago, Jason said:

 

But you've never tried it so how do you know doe.

 

I've never eaten shit before either but I have a pretty good idea that it's not for me either... no knock against those that enjoy it though :shrug:

 

I mean that's probably an extreme example but I don't think someone needs to try something that they KNOW doesn't suit their personality or lifestyle to determine whether or not it's for them especially when they have the experiences of others they are close to to make an informed judgment. I don't think that's unreasonable.

 

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27 minutes ago, skillzdadirecta said:

Because it's not for ME maybe? I meet plenty of people all the time... met my last girlfriend at a bar. I saw her walk in, thought she was cute, struck up a conversation and we ended up dating for a couple of years. I've NEVER had a hard time meeting people and the whole online thing doesn't have a lot of appeal FOR ME.  I have another friend who is like the online dating expert. The guy goes out on maybe two or three dates a week and he honestly has it down to a science but it honestly seems like more work than just going out and meeting people. :shrug: Kudos for those that find success on it though. As I said, I know people who have gotten married off of online dating. Maybe my tune will change... I've been single again for a couple of months so who knows.

I wouldn't have the guts to go up to someone and ask them out. 

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11 minutes ago, Remarkableriots said:

I wouldn't have the guts to go up to someone and ask them out. 

 

I get that and a lot of people are shy like that. I'm not. And while I didn't just "walk up to her and ask her out", I struck up a conversation, got a good vibe and THEN asked her out. Couple of days later we had a great first "date" and then ended up together. Every woman I've ever dated it was because I met them out there in the real world. 

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18 minutes ago, skillzdadirecta said:

Every woman I've ever dated it was because I met them out there in the real world. 

 

7 hours ago, Kal-El814 said:

ok boomer

 

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Does chaturbate count?  Too scared to link up with hookers in real life and not good enough at adulting to care about long term relationships yet, and what's the point of gawking at porn or leaks when you can have some interaction with a real person?  Plus those chats are always filled with enough hopeless fuckboys that its easy to stand out among them and avoid paying if you're capable of establishing some context and being sexy with words until you both cum. 

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On 11/17/2019 at 8:03 AM, best3444 said:

Match.com worked for me. I met two women that way.


you chatted with them 

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6 hours ago, skillzdadirecta said:

change... I've been single again for a couple of months so who knows.

 

Don't worry, she'll walk though the door right now and you can chat with her.

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5 minutes ago, Keyser_Soze said:

 

Don't worry, she'll walk though the door right now and you can chat with her.

I realize this is an attempt at a joke but for the LIFE of me... I'm not getting it.

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4 minutes ago, skillzdadirecta said:

I realize this is an attempt at a joke but for the LIFE of me... I'm not getting it.

 

It's not for YOU maybe.

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1 hour ago, skillzdadirecta said:

I realize this is an attempt at a joke but for the LIFE of me... I'm not getting it.

Clearly a reference to this. Totally...

 

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10 hours ago, Rachel said:


you chatted with them 

 

I went on dates with them. You think you know everything jesus. In fact, I dated the one for a month. Stephen maybe remembers.

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15 hours ago, Jason said:

 

But you've never tried it so how do you know doe.

He also didn’t try Death Stranding.  Skillz just knows. 

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12 hours ago, Rachel said:


you chatted with them 

 

1 hour ago, best3444 said:

 

I went on dates with them. You think you know everything jesus. In fact, I dated the one for a month. Stephen maybe remembers.

Right? Never seen a bitch who thinks she knows everything but in reality doesn’t know a goddamn thing. 
 

She is literally @skillzdadirecta when it comes to Death Stranding. 

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Nope.  Never needed to and hopefully never will. 

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15 hours ago, skillzdadirecta said:

Well fuck me for honestly answering the question that was posed in the original topic. Didn't realize it was gonna offend folks :shrug:  Carry on.

I was joking. :p

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