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The topic was on the radio and I had to think back to past and how each one affected me 

 

Obviously cheating where sex and emotional cheating are both factors is the worst.

 

Buth then which one do you feel is worse emotional only? Sex only? Same sex cheating? 

 

To me the worst is emotional cheating. Things said and feeling involved we had. I have forgiven sex cheating but I have never forgiven emotional cheating. 

 

Seems like per the radio talk men tend to not forgive the sex cheating and women tend to lean towards the emotional cheating being the worst. Curious to see what you all think. 

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Emotional cheating, because I am rather disillusioned with the concept of physical monogamy (so something that is purely sex wouldn't bother me).

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Emotional, and then its largely about honesty for me. IF a person claims that I am their primary companion through life then I personally feel like I'm owed a heads up when that becomes less true for whatever reason. A good relationship is all about trust and the quality of honest communication between partners. I've never begrudged anyone I've been with for being attracted  to whomever they happen to be attracted to, but cheating indicates to me that the person didn't trust me enough to share a need they felt I couldn't provide. Life is waaay to short for any of us to bee in a relationship with one of  the cowards of dishonesty. 

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I was almost sad given this topic and your recent marriage, but now I feel good.

 

So obviously this thread was cheating on me emotionally and I feel like it is the worst and unforgivable.

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If I was ever in a relationship and my partner had sex with someone else, that'd be it. The relationship would be over. But I guess I can't really say which is worse. Neither seems forgivable. 

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I don't understand what emotional cheating even is.

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15 minutes ago, Slug said:

I don't understand what emotional cheating even is.

Intimate conversations, sex texting/messages, sharing intimate secrets and being emotionally involved. It's the first person you think of when you wake up, keep in touch through the day and last person you think of when going to sleep. Things you should feel and discuss with one you love.

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20 minutes ago, Keyser_Soze said:

I was almost sad given this topic and your recent marriage, but now I feel good.

 

So obviously this thread was cheating on me emotionally and I feel like it is the worst and unforgivable.

It was radio topic and it reminded me of past I've personally experienced. Made me think. 

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I guess sex cheating could be a one time affair, whereas emotional cheating is drawn out over a long timeframe.  So I’d say sex cheating is easier to forgive.  Don’t think I could though, I wouldn’t be able to fully trust them again.

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Same sex cheating. I’d be pissed that I wasn’t invited. 

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41 minutes ago, Biggie said:

Same sex cheating. I’d be pissed that I wasn’t invited. 

Agreed! :lol: 

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Physical for sure.   Women rarely cheat physically unless they also have an emotional connection.   

 

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In order of least painful to most

1. Same sex physical

2. Same sex emotional

3. Sexual

4. Emotional

 

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4 minutes ago, SimpleG said:

In order of least painful to most

1. Same sex physical

2. Same sex emotional

3. Sexual

4. Emotional

 

Weird, to me same sex would be the least painful.  That would be the ultimate “it’s not you it’s me” truth.  

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12 minutes ago, SimpleG said:

In order of least painful to most

1. Same sex physical

2. Same sex emotional

3. Sexual

4. Emotional

 

Agreed 

7 minutes ago, Boyle5150 said:

Weird, to me same sex would be the least painful.  That would be the ultimate “it’s not you it’s me” truth.  

Read again. #1 is LEAST #4 the most 

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7 hours ago, Chris- said:

Emotional cheating, because I am rather disillusioned with the concept of physical monogamy (so something that is purely sex wouldn't bother me).

 

You sure about that? You wouldn't be bothered by your significant other having sex with someone else without your knowledge or consent? I call bullshit.

 

On topic? All of this stuff is bad because ultimately what it's about is betrayal whether physically or emotionally. 

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27 minutes ago, Boyle5150 said:

Well fuck me

I would... but it would be the 4th most traumatic cheating experience for @Triage

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2 minutes ago, Emblazon said:

I would... but it would be the 4th most traumatic cheating experience for @Triage

Technically the least traumatic

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3 minutes ago, Triage said:

Technically the least traumatic

I see where this is heading...  need new address 

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16 minutes ago, Boyle5150 said:

I see where this is heading...  need new address 

We'll have a new address soon. Does that count?

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2 minutes ago, Emblazon said:

We'll have a new address soon. Does that count?

Yeah, I’m going to need that new address for science 

 

lets really see what is “forgivable”. 

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I don't think that for me there would be any real difference between the two. If a girlfriend physically cheated on me with someone else, that would be the end of our relationship because it would also be a betrayal of my emotions (above all trust) as well. 

 

Both would be super shitty and I'm not sure I have much of a preference. :p 

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All I hear in here is, “me me me”.  That’s why y’all a bunch of cheaters.  

Do any of you even care about other people? 

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1 hour ago, Boyle5150 said:

Do any of you even care about other people? 

No.

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They’re all bad and I wouldn’t be able to reconcile with that person if it happened. 

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43 minutes ago, kittykat said:

I think the worst kind of cheating is asking another married woman for bikini pics 

I so wish you were married right now.  

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Just now, Boyle5150 said:

Have you ever humped another living human? 

No.

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4 minutes ago, Bacon said:

No.

Well then, it seems others feel the same for you as you feel for them.  

 

 

 

Piitb 

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