Triage Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 The topic was on the radio and I had to think back to past and how each one affected me Obviously cheating where sex and emotional cheating are both factors is the worst. Buth then which one do you feel is worse emotional only? Sex only? Same sex cheating? To me the worst is emotional cheating. Things said and feeling involved we had. I have forgiven sex cheating but I have never forgiven emotional cheating. Seems like per the radio talk men tend to not forgive the sex cheating and women tend to lean towards the emotional cheating being the worst. Curious to see what you all think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris- Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Emotional cheating, because I am rather disillusioned with the concept of physical monogamy (so something that is purely sex wouldn't bother me). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.Vic20 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Emotional, and then its largely about honesty for me. IF a person claims that I am their primary companion through life then I personally feel like I'm owed a heads up when that becomes less true for whatever reason. A good relationship is all about trust and the quality of honest communication between partners. I've never begrudged anyone I've been with for being attracted to whomever they happen to be attracted to, but cheating indicates to me that the person didn't trust me enough to share a need they felt I couldn't provide. Life is waaay to short for any of us to bee in a relationship with one of the cowards of dishonesty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keyser_Soze Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 I was almost sad given this topic and your recent marriage, but now I feel good. So obviously this thread was cheating on me emotionally and I feel like it is the worst and unforgivable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacon Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 If I was ever in a relationship and my partner had sex with someone else, that'd be it. The relationship would be over. But I guess I can't really say which is worse. Neither seems forgivable. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Slug Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 I don't understand what emotional cheating even is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triage Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 15 minutes ago, Slug said: I don't understand what emotional cheating even is. Intimate conversations, sex texting/messages, sharing intimate secrets and being emotionally involved. It's the first person you think of when you wake up, keep in touch through the day and last person you think of when going to sleep. Things you should feel and discuss with one you love. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triage Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 20 minutes ago, Keyser_Soze said: I was almost sad given this topic and your recent marriage, but now I feel good. So obviously this thread was cheating on me emotionally and I feel like it is the worst and unforgivable. It was radio topic and it reminded me of past I've personally experienced. Made me think. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amazatron Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 I guess sex cheating could be a one time affair, whereas emotional cheating is drawn out over a long timeframe. So I’d say sex cheating is easier to forgive. Don’t think I could though, I wouldn’t be able to fully trust them again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Biggie Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Same sex cheating. I’d be pissed that I wasn’t invited. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triage Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 41 minutes ago, Biggie said: Same sex cheating. I’d be pissed that I wasn’t invited. Agreed! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CastlevaniaNut18 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Emotional cheating, I guess, though either would end in divorce for me. Once that trust is gone, it'd be unlikely I'd ever have it again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boyle5150 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Physical for sure. Women rarely cheat physically unless they also have an emotional connection. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SimpleG Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 In order of least painful to most 1. Same sex physical 2. Same sex emotional 3. Sexual 4. Emotional Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boyle5150 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 4 minutes ago, SimpleG said: In order of least painful to most 1. Same sex physical 2. Same sex emotional 3. Sexual 4. Emotional Weird, to me same sex would be the least painful. That would be the ultimate “it’s not you it’s me” truth. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triage Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 12 minutes ago, SimpleG said: In order of least painful to most 1. Same sex physical 2. Same sex emotional 3. Sexual 4. Emotional Agreed 7 minutes ago, Boyle5150 said: Weird, to me same sex would be the least painful. That would be the ultimate “it’s not you it’s me” truth. Read again. #1 is LEAST #4 the most Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boyle5150 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 9 minutes ago, Triage said: Agreed Read again. #1 is LEAST #4 the most Well fuck me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
skillzdadirecta Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 7 hours ago, Chris- said: Emotional cheating, because I am rather disillusioned with the concept of physical monogamy (so something that is purely sex wouldn't bother me). You sure about that? You wouldn't be bothered by your significant other having sex with someone else without your knowledge or consent? I call bullshit. On topic? All of this stuff is bad because ultimately what it's about is betrayal whether physically or emotionally. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emblazon Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 27 minutes ago, Boyle5150 said: Well fuck me I would... but it would be the 4th most traumatic cheating experience for @Triage. 6 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Triage Posted March 6, 2019 Author Share Posted March 6, 2019 2 minutes ago, Emblazon said: I would... but it would be the 4th most traumatic cheating experience for @Triage. Technically the least traumatic Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boyle5150 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 3 minutes ago, Triage said: Technically the least traumatic I see where this is heading... need new address 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Emblazon Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 16 minutes ago, Boyle5150 said: I see where this is heading... need new address We'll have a new address soon. Does that count? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amazatron Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 Sounds like a green light to me... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boyle5150 Posted March 6, 2019 Share Posted March 6, 2019 2 minutes ago, Emblazon said: We'll have a new address soon. Does that count? Yeah, I’m going to need that new address for science lets really see what is “forgivable”. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nokra Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 I don't think that for me there would be any real difference between the two. If a girlfriend physically cheated on me with someone else, that would be the end of our relationship because it would also be a betrayal of my emotions (above all trust) as well. Both would be super shitty and I'm not sure I have much of a preference. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boyle5150 Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 All I hear in here is, “me me me”. That’s why y’all a bunch of cheaters. Do any of you even care about other people? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacon Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 1 hour ago, Boyle5150 said: Do any of you even care about other people? No. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
johnny Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 They’re all bad and I wouldn’t be able to reconcile with that person if it happened. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boyle5150 Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 43 minutes ago, kittykat said: I think the worst kind of cheating is asking another married woman for bikini pics I so wish you were married right now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boyle5150 Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 11 minutes ago, Bacon said: No. Have you ever humped another living human? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacon Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 Just now, Boyle5150 said: Have you ever humped another living human? No. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Boyle5150 Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 4 minutes ago, Bacon said: No. Well then, it seems others feel the same for you as you feel for them. Piitb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Boyle5150 Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 2 minutes ago, Bacon said: Send me your number Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bacon Posted March 7, 2019 Share Posted March 7, 2019 1 minute ago, Boyle5150 said: Send me your number No. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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