The larger concern is putting too much emphasis on the sex and not general close, intimate contact that includes sex. There is a difference in framing that the media and a lot of messaging is missing. The fascists have already turned on gay people as groomers and if significant transmission happens among children (and given that it seems that we’re going on a bad way to not containing this, it’s not something with zero chance of happening) it will result in right wing terrorism directed at the lgbtq community. I’m far more concerned about that than the actual disease.