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also I lold that DT* assumed the person that registered today and hasn't been out of this thread would know that she is a girl, perfect

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also I lold that DT* assumed the person that registered today and hasn't been out of this thread would know that she is a girl, perfect

Still waiting for my professional explanation from the rape hater.

It's just surprise sex, MIRITE?

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I'm not saying that no double standard exists; all sorts of double standards exist. I mean to say that I wasn't talking about any sort of double standard either intentionally or incidentally.

Also, reveling in your humiliation IS perverse. Is there something wrong with perversion? There are quite a lot of perverts out there that enjoy sex that some people say that they shouldn't or that they say is wrong or that they are told that they have attitudes that they really don't have. You're taking the anecdotes you've heard about some women in porn and applying it to the whole industry. You asked for an example and I gave you one; you can't dismiss that example with a generalization.

Finally; everyone likes different stuff. Some people enjoy a blurring of all gender roles to the point of androgyny. Some people enjoy swapping gender roles. Some people like reveling in them. Some people don't care. Yes this bows down to stereotypes but so what? I happen to enjoy the gender role of male and I enjoy women who enjoy the gender role of female. Stereotypically. Is there something wrong with enjoying this? Is there something wrong with a woman enjoying this? A woman that enjoys being stereotypically female and revels in it is harming nobody and is having fun so I have to wonder not only where all this condemnation comes from but why it seems solely aimed at men.

What I'm not understanding is you say you enjoy seeing women revel in what society says they morally shouldn't/revel in their gender roles. I'm confused as to how degradation is part of their gender roles, and if you honestly equate being a woman with degradation then I have a problem with that. I suppose I'm asking, what do you consider stereotypically feminine? I don't have much respect for what I consider stereotypically feminine- the weakness, the insecurity, the neediness. I do have respect, however, for emotional strength, caring, and a maternal urge which are positively associated with femininity. Would I want to date a girl who only had "feminine" traits? Fuuuuck no. There has been so much biological and psychological research that has debunked antiquated banalities about women that it's disheartening to hear that this is still how some perceive women, and how some women perceive themselves.

Also, why do you think someone would enjoy being humiliated/degraded? Though these things are subjective, I mean to the point where it couldn't be interpreted as anything but degradation. I believe sexist stereotypes play a role in the socialization of sexuality. I believe it's harmful to perpetuate stereotypes that women crave their own abuse, and by abuse, I'm not talking about rough sex. I'm talking want to be spit on, called a worthless stupid whore, punched in the face, and otherwise treated like literal garbage. If you honestly believe that that behavior isn't influenced by something negative, you're not contemplating enough.

I lose respect for women who seem unable to examine their choices and admit culture plays a role (you know, the "it's my choice" people- everything is empowering because postmodernism is magic, apparently).

I don't have animosity toward men as a monolithic whole, merely toward men who want to "keep me in my place." Because my place isn't being some guy's worthless play toy, and it shouldn't be anyone else's place either.

Perversion, according to Freud, was merely sex that didn't adhere to strictly conception. Foot fetishes are perverse. No problem. Wanting to be an adult baby is perverse. So what? My problem is when people can't tell the difference between these behaviors and people who try to justify their own self-destruction or sexism. I'm not generalizing the entire porn industry (though the mainstream industry really lacks a true sense of fantasy and individualism), but there may be more rot than you know. Also worth noting is that it's estimated rape occurs in anywhere from 1 to 4-14 women, which may contribute to overly-masochistic tendencies and fantasies (not always of a sexual nature) that are not always healthy.

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These walls of text are killing me

Me too. I look at that shit and my head hurts. Time to play Gears of War.

All I really gathered from this thread is that there's weird people out there. Some are good, and some are bad.

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Anyway if i wanna jack off to chicks getting punched in the face linda here isnt gonna stop me thats for damn sure.

That's okay, I aim to change nothing. The world is disgusting and always will be and always has been and no one can force me to respect anyone. Autonomy rules.

Nothing gets me hotter than guys getting their anuses pounded 'til they prolapse, so what. Totally love men. :hug:

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That's okay, I aim to change nothing. The world is disgusting and always will be and always has been and no one can force me to respect anyone. Autonomy rules.

Nothing gets me hotter than guys getting their anuses pounded 'til they prolapse, so what. Totally love men. :hug:

:(

Ew whats wrong with you

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Ew whats wrong with you

Totally joking, I don't see the appeal of that at all. Pretty sure anyone who does is a little too interested in the human body, is a possessed biology major, or really, really fucking hates humanity.

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Totally joking, I don't see the appeal of that at all. Pretty sure anyone who does is a little too interested in the human body, is a possessed biology major, or really, really fucking hates humanity.

The real question is, are you hot?

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I've never been raped or molested. No issues with being physically or emotionally abused. Good childhood. Good teenage years. Slept with three (real) men in my life.

And I'm into some pretty fucked up shit.

What's wrong with me? Why does degrading sex turn me on?

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(Is it bad that I'm doing all of this on my phone... while driving?)

Yes. Some asshole killed my nephew why doing the same selfish shit while driving. What until you get home to jump on the boards.

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What's wrong with me? Why does degrading sex turn me on?

A lot of gay men internalize shame about sex because it's "sooo emasculating to be gay" according to society/douchebag culture/stupid stereotypes so in order to combat that shame they dehumanize themselves so they don't have to face reality. Assuming you're gay. Or you could be a porn addict for all I know, hell.

I don't know, what do you call degrading?

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